Grief Picture Books children’s book recommendations are by Angela Ferraris, The Retired School Librarian.
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❗This cumulative list grows over time, with the newest books always appearing at the top.❗
Our Lake
by Angie Kang (Author, Illustrator)
Summary: Two brothers walk to the lake to go swimming without their father for the first time since he died. The older brother jumps into the water from the cliff and coaxes his brother to join him. Will he be able to jump without the help of his father?
Comments: A beautiful story of two brothers learning how to grieve while moving forward without their father beside them; only in spirit.
The illustrations were created using gouache with additional textures added in crayon and colored pencil.
This is an excellent story to share with students and children experiencing death of a relative. It is gentle and quiet and does not overly emphasize their feelings.
Rating: 5/5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Where Are You, Brontë?
by Tomie dePaola (Author), Barbara McClintock (Illustrator)
Summary: Tomie adopted a puppy named Brontë. He grew up to become a beloved dog, always playing, running, and going for rides. Tomie and Brontë even adapted to the dog’s blindness. Eventually, Tomie learned to cope with the loss of his dog.
Comments: This is Tomie dePaola’s last fully written book.
This was created with pens, colored pencils, watercolor and gouache on watercolor paper.
Rating: 4.5/5 📗📗📗📗1/2
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Do You Remember?
by Sydney Smith (Author)
Summary: A mother and son exchange memories of when the father was still with them. They have moved to a new home in the city where everything is new. They decide that they will begin to make new memories together.
Comments: This book could be shared as a read-aloud between two people. The mother’s voice is in red ink; the boy’s is in blue.
We are not told where the father is or what happened to him. This could be a discussion point with students.
The soft and calm illustrations match the mood of lying in bed and reminiscing.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link)..
The Invisible Parade
by Leigh Bardugo (Author), John Picacio (Author, Artist)
Summary: Cala’s grandfather has passed away. While everyone in her house and neighborhood is preparing for Día de Muertos, she feels too sad to participate. Reluctantly, she goes with her family to the cemetery. Suddenly, she finds herself separated from them. As Cala searches for her family, she encounters different ghostly riders on horses who help her confront her fears and the concept of death.
Comments: The illustrations were drawn in graphite.
Rating: 4.5/5 📗📗📗📗1/2
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Just What to Do
by Kyle Lukoff (Author), Hala Tahboub (Illustrator)
Summary: A young child strives to bring comfort to various friends, realizing that each one requires support in different ways. One friend, who has lost her grandmother, feels unsure about how to cope. Together, they explore ways to simply be present for each other.
Comments: This is a kind and gentle book that teaches how people grieve and how they need comforting in various ways.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
I Miss You Most
by Charlotte Cheng (Author), Xindi Yan (Illustrator)
Summary: A young girl recalls the many things she misses about her grandfather. Over time, she begins to remember differently, not sadly but reflectively, and realizes he is with her in many ways..
Comments:I found this comforting because it encourages someone to share memories of a loved one, helping a grieving person open up.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Small Things Mended
by Casey W. Robinson (Author), Nancy Whitesides (Illustrator)
Summary: Cecil steps outside his house after hearing Lily, the little girl next door, playing in her yard. Suddenly, a watch flies out of her pocket and lands in his driveway. He manages to fix the watch and realizes how much he enjoys repairing things. Before long, several other children come to him with their broken toys and items that need fixing. Cecil also invites the neighbors over for lunch in his backyard. As a result, he starts feeling happy again.
Comments: The illustrations were created using gouache, crayons, pencils, and digital media.
The book does not explain Cecil’s melancholy forthrightly, but the empty house and empty chairs could indicate that he is now a widower.
Rating: 4.5/5 📗📗📗📗1/2
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Flora’s Wish
by Fiona Halliday (Author, Illustrator)
Summary: Flora, a little mouse, is friends with Lion, a dandelion. Flora appreciates how Lion makes her feel brave and safe. As Lion’s bright yellow blooms turn to silver, they float away in the wind. In the meantime, Flora finds comfort in a scarecrow, sleeping in its pocket until spring arrives, when everything is good again.
Comments: The illustrations beautifully enhance the story.
Rating: 4.5/5 📗📗📗📗1/2
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
A Walk in the Woods
by Nikki Grimes (Author), Jerry Pinkney (Illustrator), Brian Pinkney (Illustrator)
Summary: A boy, whose father passed away a week ago, opens an envelope left for him. Inside, he finds a map of the woods they used to explore together. He decides to follow the path marked on the map, leading him to an old fireplace marked with an “X.” As he discovers this hidden spot, he finds comfort in what he unearths and realizes that his father is still close to him in spirit.
Comments: Beautifully illustrated with sketches and watercolors
Rating: 5/5 📗📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Remembering
by Xelena González (Author), Adriana M. Garcia (Illustrator)
Summary: A family honors their beloved dog on Día de Muertos by creating an altar for the deceased, which includes the dog’s collar, toys, sticks, a photo, and other items the dog enjoyed. The family also shares stories about their cherished pet.
Comments: This book was illustrated with acrylic paint.
The back pages provide additional information about the altar and offerings. The author and illustrator share their story of remembering pets.
Rating: 5/5 📗📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Willow
by Elisabeth Sophia (Author), Anita Bagdi (Illustrator)
Summary: This anthropomorphic story is about a tree creature standing by a lake going through all of the seasons with the insects and birds that consider her their home. A severe storm breaks her limbs and her soul. A flock of yellow birds helps rebuild her.
Comments: This is such a beautiful metaphor of grief and resilience. Teachers could ask how it feels when a storm comes into their lives. This would be a great book for SEL, exploring the healing process. I think it could also be shared as a way to explain how community (yellow birds) can help heal.
Rating: 4.5 📗📗📗📗1/2
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
What Happens After?
by Diane Namm (Author), Laura Jäger (Illustrator)
Summary: How do we go on after the death of someone we love? This picture book provides answers that help young readers understand and relate to it. We may feel sad, mad, or alone. We still do the things that the deceased enjoyed and remember them in our own way.
Comments: This book is helpful for children who are grieving, as it helps them understand that their feelings are valid and guides them in moving forward without their loved one.
This would make a great addition to any library and could be shared by teachers, parents, and counselors.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
*I received a free copy of this book.
The Hole
by Lindsay Bonilla (Author), Brizida Magro (Illustrator)
Summary: A boy notices gaps in his home, in his parents, and within himself where his younger brother, Matty, used to fit. He realizes that other people also have these holes, as they, too, have lost someone. Eventually, he confronts his emptiness and delves into his emotions. His friend Nora asks if he would like to share memories about his brother, which helps him begin to feel better.
Comments: This would make a wonderful book to help students deal with grief.
I like how the boy can fill the hole with good memories of his brother.
The illustrations were created using watercolor washes, colored pencils, and paper collage, all assembled digitally.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Under Anna’s Umbrella
by Amanda Driscoll (Author), Luisa Uribe (Illustrator)
Summary: Anna was attending her father’s funeral when it started pouring rain, but she felt safe under her large umbrella. Afterwards, she began carrying her open umbrella everywhere—both inside and outside. One day, she saw a boy getting soaked in the rain and invited him to seek shelter under her umbrella. How will Anna learn to walk in the sunlight again without her umbrella shading her?
Comments: The journey of grief that Anna experienced before she could walk in the sun again is a touching story that may help children.
The illustrations were created digitally.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Mouseboat
by Larissa Theule (Author), Abigail Halpin (Illustrator)
Brief summary: A girl who has recently lost her mother goes on a trip to their lake house with her father. She misses her mother but can not find a connection until she takes out the mouse boat she and her mother built together. She can face her emotions.
Comments: The illustrator captured the mourning girl’s facial expressions and the sad tone of the house of grief with cool, darker colors. Well done.
I could follow the storyline with or without the text, which is an excellent picture book to me. I’d like to see more picture books with this duo. They complement each other well.
Rating: 5/5 📗📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Missing Violet
by Kelly Swemba (Author), Fabiana Faiallo (Illustrator)
Brief summary: Mia has a best friend named Violet, with whom she plays and does activities at school. Her friend goes home sick and never returns. Mia works through her grief with a counselor. Her class does activities together to honor Violet.
Comments: This story provides a heartfelt exploration of coping with the sudden loss of a friend. It would be an excellent read-aloud choice for a classroom facing the unexpected passing of a classmate.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
I’ll Say Goodbye
by Pam Zollman (Author), Frances Ives (Illustrator)
Summary: A young child shares the story of Uncle Mike and their time together at the beach. They discovered a hermit crab and decided to keep it as a pet. Uncle Mike was battling cancer and had to remain in the hospital. The child recalls how relatives came to visit, the funeral they attended, and their feelings of wondering where Uncle Mike is now.
Comments: This book was illustrated with mixed media.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
Goodbye, Bear
by Jane Chapman (Author, Illustrator)
Summary: Bear died on Friday. Beaver and Mole comfort each other by remembering their friend. At times, they are angry because Bear died. The forest animals come together to build a tree house in Bear’s remembrance.
Comments: This is a gentle and heartwarming book about friends coming together to honor a memory.
Rating: 4/5 📗📗📗📗
Details and buying options are on this book’s Amazon page (paid link).
The selected children’s books are chosen by a certified, retired elementary school librarian who passionately reads and recommends picture books to teachers, school librarians, parents, grandparents, and other book enthusiasts.
Most of the books Mrs. Ferraris recommends are checked out from the public library. The only exception is for the complimentary copies that she receives for an honest review, which are duly noted.